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"Attraction Mastery Vol. I 50 Amazing Tips For Guaranteed Success With Women by Scott Patterson http://www.chickmagnet101.com It's recommended that print out this entire report for easy reading and advanced learning How You Can Finally Get That ONE Girl You’ve ALWAYS Wanted © 2008 Scott Patterson – All Rights Reserved Click Here http://www.chickmagnet101.com Legal Notice The author, publisher, agent or distributor assume no liability or responsibility to any person or entity with respect to errors, omissions, contradictory interpretations of the subject matter herein to be caused directly or indirectly by the use of and the advice given in this publication. To the fullest extent permitted by applicable laws, in no event shall "Attraction Mastery Vol. 1" in association with Scott Patterson and http://www.chickmagnet101.com be liable for damages of any kind or character, including without limitation any compensatory, incidental, direct, indirect, special, punitive or consequential damages, loss of use, loss of data, loss of income or profit, loss of or damage to property, claims of third parties, arising out of or in connection with the use of the " Attraction Mastery Vol. 1" or any website which it is linked. How You Can Finally Get That ONE Girl You’ve ALWAYS Wanted © 2008 Scott Patterson – All Rights Reserved Click Here http://www.chickmagnet101.com Introduction Let's be honest here… The dating scene can be quite intimidating! While there might be thousands of available women in your area, you have almost no chance of success if you don't know how to approach and or get them interested in you. Now if you're like most guys, you may have trouble talking to women or thinking of what to say in order to make them attracted to you. In fact, you're probably missing golden opportunities to meet beautiful and interesting women. From my experience with my website, I've discovered that many guys need help in a variety of areas with women. For instance, here are some of the common questions I receive from my readers: • • • • • • • Where do I find available women? How can I approach them without using some lame pick up lines? What can I say to a woman to make her attracted to me? What do I talk about during my first conversation? How can I get a woman's phone number and set up the initial date? Where should I go on my first date and what I should say? How can make things more intimate and perhaps seduce her? As you can see, I get a lot of questions about how to meet and attract women. So for the past months, I've been busy helping hundreds of guys learn how to succeed with women. That's where this ebook comes in… I've taken my best tips created this report to give you a crash course on attracting women. So sit back, read these 50 tips, then implement them into your life! Enjoy! How You Can Finally Get That ONE Girl You’ve ALWAYS Wanted © 2008 Scott Patterson – All Rights Reserved Click Here http://www.chickmagnet101.com Mental Game Tip #1- How to Improve Your Self Confidence If you've ever tried to attract a woman, then you know your success depends on your selfconfidence. The more confidence you have, the better off you'll be! So what should you do if you lack self confidence around women? Well here are a few tips you can use to raise your self-esteem: 1) Learn to relax Before approaching women, put yourself in a relaxed state by paying attention to your posture and body. Then concentrate on a positive outcome from the conversation you're about to have. If you can remove all expectations you'll become more relaxed around women. So remind yourself that any negative outcome won't affect your life. 2) Try meditation and exercising There are certain activities (meditation, yoga, and tai-chi) which will make you more relaxed. By practicing these exercises, you'll be able to put yourself into a positive state whenever you need it, including the times when you're trying to pick up women. So if you're serious about building self confidence, try one of these activities. 3) Use your strengths One quick way to build self-confidence is to write down all of the qualities that make you a great person. Then whenever you're faced with a situation where you're not feeling confident, just recite the affirmations about your positive qualities. By mentally reviewing your strengths, you'll be able to quickly ramp up your levels of confidence. 4) Positive at all times It's widely known that guys who smile and have a positive outlook tend to attract more women. How You Can Finally Get That ONE Girl You’ve ALWAYS Wanted © 2008 Scott Patterson – All Rights Reserved Click Here http://www.chickmagnet101.com So no matter what you're feeling inside, ALWAYS have a upbeat attitude and do your best to be a guy who women enjoy being around. What's funny is even when you *fake* a confident personality, you'll eventually develop this personality trait! How You Can Finally Get That ONE Girl You’ve ALWAYS Wanted © 2008 Scott Patterson – All Rights Reserved Click Here http://www.chickmagnet101.com Tip #2- How to be the MAN that women want Today I was reading a book on changing your lifestyle, when I came to a sudden realization. Sometimes the best way to attract a woman is to work on YOURSELF first. In other words, you have to learn… How to become a MAN! The truth is a LOT of women are fed up with dating guys who act like little boys. If you can learn what is attractive to women, then you’ll stand out from these low status men. So why is it important to become a MAN? Well it's simple. By being a REAL man, you'll exude a variety of positive characteristics. And these core set of traits can help you become more naturally attractive to women. The question is- What virtues should you develop? Well in my opinion, there are a number of strong character traits you should develop. Here are just a FEW of them: • • • • • • • • • • • • Honor Integrity Passion for life Goal orientation Confidence Humility Calmness under pressure Generosity to friends, family and even strangers Leadership Courage and conviction Decisiveness Humor Now you might be overwhelmed by the number of traits I’ve described. It definitely sounds like a lot to work on. But if you want to become more attractive to women, then you MUST do your best to work on all these areas of your life. I challenge you to take each trait and rate yourself on how well you fit this description. Then discipline yourself to improve on EACH of these character traits. I guarantee the more you work on yourself, then more you’ll naturally attract women. How You Can Finally Get That ONE Girl You’ve ALWAYS Wanted © 2008 Scott Patterson – All Rights Reserved Click Here http://www.chickmagnet101.com Tip #3- Eliminating Your Approach Anxiety Approach anxiety happens to the best of us! We’ve all had that terrifying fear of walking up to women and initiating a conversation. The truth is these anxious feelings can be traced back to early human development. Back then, there was REAL danger in approaching women. If you talked to a female who was attached to another man, you could get smacked over the head with a club. As you can see, approach anxiety is a NORMAL feeling that we all get. But should you let it control you? The obvious answer is NO! Although approach anxiety is commonplace, you should NEVER let it control you. Remember that we've all been at this point in our lives. The best “Pick Up Artists” in the world are the guys who overcame these feelings. Now if you want to overcome your own anxious feelings, then you should follow the same technique I used to move beyond approach anxiety… Talk to every woman you encounter! Many budding PUAs make the mistake of ONLY approaching women during a specific time during the week. Then they build up a LOT of anxious feelings about initiating conversations with women. The solution to this problem is pretty easy. Instead of only approaching a girl during your trips to bar or club, you should initiate conversations with the women you encounter throughout the day. The beauty of this technique is you do NOT have to worry about trying to "pick up" these women. Instead you're using opportunities to PRACTICE your conversation skills and reduce nervousness. The point I'm trying to make is you can quickly ELIMINATE your approach anxiety if talking to women becomes second nature. To get started, all you have to do is initiate conversations with the women you encounter throughout the day. For instance, here are some girls you can talk to: • Checkout girls at stores How You Can Finally Get That ONE Girl You’ve ALWAYS Wanted © 2008 Scott Patterson – All Rights Reserved Click Here http://www.chickmagnet101.com • • • • • Women who sit near you in class Any girl who helps you in clothing stores Females who work with you Women that you encounter on trains and subways Any girl waiting on the line with you Remember that you DON'T have to use a smooth opener or conversation starter. Just start talking to them in a normal manner. Approach anxiety is something which all men have at some point in their lives. But you should NEVER let it control you. If you make it a habit to talk to women EVERYWHERE you go, it'll become second nature. How You Can Finally Get That ONE Girl You’ve ALWAYS Wanted © 2008 Scott Patterson – All Rights Reserved Click Here http://www.chickmagnet101.com Tip #4- Overcome Your Fear of Rejection One major stumbling block to your success with women comes down to your ability to handle rejection. The simple truth is many guys have built up a MAJOR fear of rejection. If you have this phobia, then you're severely decreasing your chances at meeting and attracting the kind of women you want. Now there is a way to quickly overcome this fear. All you have to do is implement a trick my friend John taught me called "Going Kamikaze". The technique is simple. Every time you see an interesting woman, you approach WITHOUT hesitation. To be honest, I don't always agree with some of John's routines, but there is something to be learned about initiating conversations without thinking about it. He succeeds with a lot of women simply because he has no fear of rejection. While John knows he MIGHT get rejected, he's able to remove all negative thoughts from his head and focus on the moment. He's able to overcome HIS fear of rejection because he acts on instinct rather then dwell on what could go wrong. But what he does is NOT for the weak of heart. If you're uncomfortable with talking to ANY girl, then you need to take drastic measures to get over your feelings of possible rejection. A great trick I learned about eliminating the fears of rejection is to understand it's more important to think about the present moment rather then any negative thoughts which you might have. All you need to do is focus on enjoying the conversation and having fun with the girl, rather then "trying to score". Instead of letting your fears control you, try to reprogram yourself to approach without hesitation. So if you see an interesting woman, approach her with the SOLE intention of just striking up a conversation. When you tell yourself that you're JUST having a conversation becomes easier to eliminate your fears. What's funny is when you approach lots of women you'll discover it's not as bad as you think. After awhile your fears will slowly diminish. And your overall success will increase. If you follow my advice and learn how to approach automatically you'll discover your fear of rejection can be overcome. How You Can Finally Get That ONE Girl You’ve ALWAYS Wanted © 2008 Scott Patterson – All Rights Reserved Click Here http://www.chickmagnet101.com Tip #5- The Real Truth About The ‘Nice Guy Myth’ In this tip, I am going to talk about "The Nice Guy". Now there are a lot of guys who try too hard with women. Typically these men are always ready to buy gifts do favors for girls "they like". But because of their supplicating behavior, they end up repelling women instead of attracting them. Without going into too much female psychology, the nice guy presents no challenge to women. Most of them want a guy who interests them and presents a challenge. As a result, you HAVE to demonstrate that you're a challenge to any woman you're trying to attract. This means you should create a strict set of standards and then ONLY do things if they comply with your personal code. Furthermore, you should challenge women if they're disrespecting you or not matching up to your expectations. While you might feel weird or think you're disrespecting women, there are strict rules for attracting them. By not kissing a girl's ass and doing everything she asks, you'll get rid of the 'Nice Guy' persona. This will help you transform yourself into the kind of guy who all women desire. The final way to stop being the proverbial nice guy is to learn how to be confident around women. This is especially true if they challenge or try to reject you. By carrying yourself with an "I don't care what happens" attitude, you'll act like a man who isn't concerned about the outcomes of an interaction with women. In fact, you'll look like you're not trying too hard. So if you want to stop being a nice guy, you should set up a code of conduct and transform yourself into a confident guy. Then you'll become an interesting and exciting person. How You Can Finally Get That ONE Girl You’ve ALWAYS Wanted © 2008 Scott Patterson – All Rights Reserved Click Here http://www.chickmagnet101.com Tip #6- How to Overcome Your Sticking Points When it comes to women, we ALL have certain strengths and weaknesses. For instance, some guys are great at approaching women, but can’t create attraction. And others can display a confident personality, but don’t know how to use openers. Unfortunately being “great with women” comes down to your ability to OVERCOME your weakness rather then relying on your strengths. What does this mean to you? Well, if you want to increase your success with women, then you MUST identify the specific obstacles (Often known as ‘Sticking Points’) that are holding you back. Then once you’ve spotted these weaknesses, you should work on fixing them. I suggest a simple technique. Analyze the ways you try to meet women and break down the different obstacles into SMALL manageable steps. By doing it this way, you’ll identify and laser-target the problems you’re experiencing. For instance, here are a few sticking-points that affect a LOT of guys • • • • • • • • Being controlled by approach anxiety Showing low status body language Knowing the right way to approach women How to start talking to women Understanding Indicators of Interest and when a woman is flirting How to go from an opener to having a REAL conversation Getting a woman’s number and setting up a date Knowing how to progress from a date to a *physical* encounter As you can see, there are a lot of ‘sticking points’ that hold guys back. Perhaps you have a few of them. Part of being successful with women is accepting that you aren’t perfect. But it’s also about identifying your problem areas and having the courage to fix what you can. My advice is to analyze the things you’re doing wrong. Then FIX them! If you can overcome your sticking points, then you’ll experience a dramatic growth in your game. Ultimately this will help you transform into the kind of guy who can naturally attract a woman How You Can Finally Get That ONE Girl You’ve ALWAYS Wanted © 2008 Scott Patterson – All Rights Reserved Click Here http://www.chickmagnet101.com Tip #7- Why Your Fear of Failure Is Holding You Back "Oh my God, I can't just walk up and talk to her. What if I fail?" This is a TOO common statement I hear from guys. A lot of men are afraid to simply approach a woman and initiate a conversation. They're showing their fear because of one thing: FAILURE. The fear of rejection is an incredible powerful emotion. It can prevent you from taking that first step towards attracting a woman. One of the more common reasons for this anxiety is worrying that women will mock or ridicule you in some way. While this might happen, it's better to face this fear than run away from it. If you allow fear to control your actions, you'll miss out on many opportunities to talk to women. Now I know anxiety is a commonplace thing, but you should NEVER allow it to dictate what you can or can't do. Instead of letting it control your actions, you should learn to embrace your failures. And here's the reason why… A great comparison for dating is comparing it to baseball. In this sport, a guy is a "Hall of Fame Player" if he gets a hit 3 or 4 times for every 10 at bats. You should follow this same philosophy when you're talking to a woman. Just understand that failure is part of the whole process. Even the guys with the BEST approach techniques will meet a woman who won't be interested in them. It's important to remember that failure is a positive not a negative. You should learn to use it as a learning experience and use this opportunity to increase your overall "dating skill set". So the next you "strike out" with a woman don't get frustrated. Just analyze the interaction and ask yourself: • Did I talk to fast/slow/loud? • Did I demonstrate higher status? • Was she available or does she have a boyfriend? • Did I successfully create a dynamic conversation? • Was I funny, charming and confident? When evaluate your *performance*, you can learn a lot from your mistakes. Then you can apply them when you next talk to a woman. When you eliminate your fear of failure and understand that it's a GOOD thing, then you'll see a dramatic increase in your dating success. How You Can Finally Get That ONE Girl You’ve ALWAYS Wanted © 2008 Scott Patterson – All Rights Reserved Click Here http://www.chickmagnet101.com Tip #8- Stop Worrying About Your Looks When it comes to dating, guys have a LOT of fears. Whether they feel they're too bald, too short, or too fat, some men feel their personal appearance prevents them from talking to women. So the question is this: Is your appearance THAT important? Well the short answer is NO. But let me explain my rationale… As men we're primarily attracted to the stereotypical "Hot Girl". And according to popular men's magazines all guys desire thin, blonde-haired, and large-breasted models. (While you might have different tastes, this type of girl is statistically found to be the most popular type of woman among men.) Now what's interesting is women are attracted to different things then men. First off, each woman has varied tastes in men. What they find attractive really depends on their personality. Some love large hulking men, while others are attracted to thin, intellectual types. In addition women are PRIMARILY attracted to traits which are not based on personal appearance. Things like confidence, goal orientation and humor are all traits which can attract a woman. Obviously this is good news! No matter what faults you might find in your own appearance, you can still be VERY successful with women. If you know how to demonstrate an attractive personality then it becomes EASY to succeed with women. So the moral of this post is to STOP worrying about your looks. Instead try to focus on these things: • Being cocky/funny • Knowing how to build confidence, • Developing great openers • Being able to demonstrate higher value • Eliminating self limiting beliefs When you develop these core traits your looks won't matter. You'll be able to attract beautiful women through your own unique personality. How You Can Finally Get That ONE Girl You’ve ALWAYS Wanted © 2008 Scott Patterson – All Rights Reserved Click Here http://www.chickmagnet101.com Tip #9- How Your Failures Can Bring You Success The way you view an eve..."

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